who you to judge who i am and who am i to judge who are you?

hiya folks
so, this little nugget has been on my mind recently.
"Never judge a book by its cover"
well, for starters, ill begin with a little analogy.
hmm...lets take an exerpt from reality.
Theres this person, lets call that person tactoe.
That person appears rather sweet and, for a lack of better wording, blur most of the time.
Hence, mostly people would judge that person to be rather nice and demure and friendly.Damensel in distress, yea? heck i cant blame them, i did the same too. AT FIRST.

Thus, when i opened the book, at the very first chapter, i had expected a story book about fairy tales and fantasies. I was prepared for an familier content.
However reading the book, i felt exhausted, mentally and physically. and out of my league.

And believe me, this is the fact of life for me now, as to most people i interact with on a day to day basis. There are so many hidden angendas, and such a different modus operandi as compared to the past.